Unfortunately, many relationships and marriage end because of infidelity. Cheating is not something that is unheard of. There are many marriages that I know of personally that have ended because one person became too close to someone other than their spouse.
Intimacy with anyone other than your spouse is wrong. But of course, most people would argue that they would never do something like this, that they love their spouse. However, cheating is typically not something that occurs randomly with a complete stranger. Most often, a husband or wife will develop a close relationship with a co-worker or friend that grows to the point of having strong feelings for the other. These feelings of intimacy can lead to physical intimacy and infidelity, ruining a marriage.
I think it is important to recognize that not only is physical intimacy with someone other that ones spouse is cheating. We learn in the Bible that "whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart" (Matthew 5:28). I also believe that even having strong feelings towards another, is cheating.
Couples should be careful to avoid close relationships with those of their opposite gender. Especially limiting alone time with them. Spouses are intended to be each others better half, best friend, and the person that you want to be with the most. When those feelings and actions begin to change, its important that it is recognized and the utmost effort it put into making your spouse a priority again.
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